This is not an exhaustive list but it will help acquaint you with some of the more important issues and questions concerning divorce.
Is Divorce The Answer?
6 Reasons Divorce Is Better For Your Kids Than A Bad Marriage
How Will Divorce Affect My Children?
How parents’ arguments really affect their children
How Do We Raise The Children?
Co-Parenting Tips for Divorced Parents: Making Joint Custody Work After a Divorce or Separation
What Is A Divorce Coach?
The T&C Guide to Divorce: The 5 People You Need on Your Team
What Can I Expect in Child Support?
You can take a look at one of these child support calculators. They will give you with some ballpark figures as to what you might be able to get in child support.
New Jersey Child Support Calculator
New York Child Support Calculator
Any Books I Can Read?